The 2023 A-to-Z blogging challenge theme is resilience. Resilience is the ability to get back on our feet and keep going after life knocks us down and kicks sand in our faces. Resilience is how the psyche survives and copes, but resilience doesn’t necessarily wear a cape of positivity.
The 26 songs I’ve chosen show us, musically, what resilience looks (sounds?) like. I’ll offer a reflection of the resilience in each song. The songs are alphabetical by the artist’s first name or the group’s name, except for M, O, U, and X.
B is for The Beatles and Help!
The Beatles released Help! as a single in July 1965. While it is credited to Lennon-McCartney as co-writers, John wrote the song with some input from Paul.
The narrator in this song has tied a knot in the end of his metaphorical emotional rope, and he is hanging on for dear life. Is he depressed? Suicidal? Having relationship troubles? A spiritual crisis? Financial woes? There are any number of scenarios for his current state of emotional and psychological turmoil.
He says he needs somebody, but not just anybody. This indicates he’s reaching out to a specific ‘someone’. He’s on a downward spiral, and he doesn’t know how to stop the fall on his own before he crashes. The song’s fast rhythm add to the urgency of his plea for help.
Realizing he needs help and asking for help are two signs of resilience. Pushing past his pride, and possibly the shame he feels for his self-perceived weakness of character, he admits when he was younger, he was independent, and he never needed anybody’s help in any way.
But his life has changed as he’s aged. Somehow, he’s lost control and his focus, and he’s asking for help to ‘re-ground’. He’s not so self-assurred. He needs a ‘rock’ to lean on and help him get his feet back on the ground where he can feel safe, secure, and ‘normal’ again. He’s looking for the light at the end of what seems like a dark, endless tunnel. This is the hope aspect of resilience.
Because he’s asking for help and it seems he genuinely wants help and will accept help, his resilience is strong. It just needs a boost from someone who cares about him. The last line sums up his determination to overcome what has brought him so low.
Won’t you please, please, help me? Help me?
*Knotted rope image by bambe1964
Until next time,
Kaye Spencer
writing through history one romance upon a time
Kaye…good post. I was never a huge Beatles fan, but I did go to Abby Road and blogged about it. It turned out to be one of the coolest places I ever visited.
https://zuludelta45.net/2018/08/26/abbey-road/
Zulu Delta
I read your article about your excursion to Abby Road along with your thoughts about the whole Beatles phenomenon. I was a little too young to get into the Beatles craze, too, when they took America by storm in 1964(?). As with most musical artists, I like some of their songs, but the bulk of their works I can go on living without.
I’ve recently heard this song in the soundtrack of a series I watched… Can’t remember which one, though 🙂
Ronel visiting for B:
My Languishing TBR: B
Birds of Faerie
That happens to me, too. I watch something that has a ‘pop culture’ song in it that I can’t quite place, but it’s awfully familiar. 😉
I never thought of the song from that angle, it does add a lot to it, doesn’t it?
Yes, it does. All of us have our unique perspective to life and the situations we experience. Mine is just one of many perspectives. 😉